How To Get Your Lover Back
Successful Strategies For Starting Over (And Making It Better Than It Was Before!)
Over 100,000 sold. This book has comforted and helped many people.
Your lover is gone. You’re devastated. You want him (or her) back. So go for it, says psychiatrist and believer-in-true-love, Dr. Blase Harris, in his book How To Get Your Lover Back. A practical guide written for anyone whose lover has walked out the door, whose relationship is on the brink of break-up, or for the person who did the leaving and now regrets it. How To Get Your Lover Back is designed to assist readers in understanding their own feelings of helplessness, if they should make the effort to get their lover back, and if so, how to do it.
A psychiatrist in private practice, Dr. Harris devised the techniques he shares in his book in his own relationship. They worked for him, and now he reveals them in this step-by-step guide for reclaiming lost love.
How To Get Your Lover Back “views romantic love as a natural process that can be understood and mastered,” says Dr. Harris. “Too often we treat love as pure magic, undecipherable or decipherable only in some far-removed, abstract theory. Love is so wonderful; we are in such awe of it that we feel we show it disrespect, degrade it or ourselves if we try to analyze and understand it.”
But, Dr. Harris stresses this is exactly what one must do should he or she truly desire to get a lover back. The doctor’s cure for heartache includes:
The “Should You Get Your Lover Back?” Quiz
Three components that can re-trigger the love bond
How to analyze your sex life
Ways to contact a resistant lover and spend romantic time together, even after it’s all over
Do’s and Don’ts about the “Other Woman” or “Other Man”
How to stop obsessing and start loving
The 18 steps to getting a lover back and keeping him or her forever
How To Get Your Lover Back is also for anyone whose lover is physically still around but appears to be losing interest, or for couples who broke up a long time ago and now want to finally understand why. Dr. Harris follows up discussion of basic principles and techniques for getting a lover back with several examples drawn from real life experiences, popular works of literature, and from movie scenes the reader will recognize and come to appreciate in a new way.
Dr. Harris believes there is no reason to give up on what was once a happy and healthy relationship, and he’s the first to admit getting a lover back isn't easy to accomplish. But, by applying his techniques and easy-to-follow advice, there is hope.